Let’s be brutally honest. Sexual harassment exists, at times, in the eye of the beholder, if they are not attracted to the harasser. Fact is, life is quite ironic. If the attention is wanted, it is called flirtation. If it isn’t wanted, it can be harassment. If the actions are mutual, it is an affair. If not, it is a crime. Even if it is mutual, it can be turned into a crime, later, if one partner is a Republican, running for office.
It is entirely subjective.
Any person who waits twenty years, then prostitutes their misery for money is nothing but a cheap whore.
End of story.