
My life fell apart three years ago today. I began a year long journal of my spiritual journey. The first …Read the Rest

My life fell apart three years ago today. I began a year long journal of my spiritual journey. The first …Read the Rest
It should be noted that not everyone who has Alzheimer’s Disease is like my father, who is mild mannered, well …Read the Rest
The Forgotten 14 Samuel Gerald Dean Edward Joseph Wolbers Radamés E. Cáceres Douglas Laurent Dauphin Bert Garland Sauls Jr. Kenneth …Read the Rest
There is this pithy saying that getting old is not for sissies. Well, it’s like this, taking care of those …Read the Rest
A friend once mentioned to me that his former minister had developed AD. He said the man’s mouth was foul, …Read the Rest
It isn’t very often that I get to use my favorite things in a blog – the Wild West & …Read the Rest
My father is 90 today. As I start working on the blog, it’s midnight. Every year, until the past five …Read the Rest
All families have stories. Most have stories about World War II, if you are lucky. My mother grew up at …Read the Rest
Friday morning, I saw a headline from The Hill. Bob Dole is pissed about the VA. Well, I’m pissed about …Read the Rest
DNR is short for Do Not Resuscitate. If it is on a person’s medical directive, their chart, or on their …Read the Rest
My mother has a drag queen cat named Miss Scarlet. How, you might ask, can a cat be a drag …Read the Rest
Americans have, for many decades considered themselves the middle class. During the dark days of the Great Depression, those who …Read the Rest
One of The Pink Flamingo’s regular reads is a site called the King’s English. I highly recommend it. Based on …Read the Rest
“…Perpetrators often delude themselves into viewing their actions as helpful to children. They might tell themselves they are contributing to …Read the Rest
The litany of my life includes the following: Lose five pounds and you can get those cute shoes you want. …Read the Rest
The Pink Flamingo’s father turns 89 today. I don’t even know if he realizes that he has reached an age …Read the Rest
It’s been one of those days. The Pink Flamingo has spent far too much time, lately, on this blasted blog. …Read the Rest
If you’ve not heard the story, Kobe Bryant’s mother is planning to auction his stuff. He’s mad. She’s claiming he …Read the Rest
One of the first things they tell you when dealing with Alzheimer’s Disease is that the primary caregiver is the …Read the Rest
The day after Christmas, here in New Mexico an 8 year old boy was killed by feral dogs. In 2011, …Read the Rest
Do you think you’re going to get out of more baby pictures of precious little cutie Catie? She’s named …Read the Rest
Thanksgiving is The Pink Flamingo’s very least favorite holiday. I don’t see it as a patriotic holiday. Rather, I look …Read the Rest
NOTE: This post is not about abortion. It is about those advocating against it. The Pink Flamingo’s feelings on the …Read the Rest
No, I’m not kidding. Thursday, around 11:15 AM, The Pink Flamingo, my 82 year old mother who is in fragile …Read the Rest
UPDATE: All local communication has been restored. I thought I saw the Guard when I was in town. Martinez is …Read the Rest
Right now, I am tired. I am sick of blogging. It’s 11:30 at night, I’m barely getting started. If I …Read the Rest
I am The Pink Flamingo and I have suffered from migraine headaches since I was about seven years old. In …Read the Rest
There were two very important bits of news on Friday. Sadie went home. She was welcomed by a party of …Read the Rest
This evening The Pink Flamingo had a call about 8:30PM that all you know what was breaking lose. Thanks to …Read the Rest
It has hit our family. On Wednesday, we were given as definitive diagnosis of Alzheimer’s Disease as one can get. …Read the Rest
SJ Reidhead (aka The Pink Flamingo) is a writer based in New Mexico. The author of two published novels, both westerns: Dust Devil and The Second Mrs. Earp and two published works of non-fictions: TRAVESTY: Frank Waters Earp Agenda Exposed and A Church for Helldorado, Endicott Peabody’s 1882 Tombstone Diary. One of the leading authorities on the life of Wyatt Earp and Tombstone during the Earp years, she is currently writing a series of murder mysteries set in modern day Tombstone. The author is also working on a book about fashion in the Wild West. When complete, there will be over 2100 unpublished antique photographs dating from 1855-1910.
The author’s work has appeared in Wild West, True West, Blogcritics, and The Tombstone Times. Recently the author has had to deal with a father in Stage 4 Alzheimer’s Disease. This is leading to a book dealing with the frustrations of dealing with the frustrations of the disease, finance, legal, health-care, and things no one bothers telling families about it.
SJ Reidhead has been involved in Republican politics since she was ‘a little kid’. During the Reagan years she was a lobbyist working with various non-profit organizations who were attempting to salvage NASA and the American space program after the disastrous Carter years. Unfortunately, because of the libertarian take-over of the GOP, and the rise of the Tea Parties, as the Republican Party becomes more and more extreme and marginalized, it is impossible to remain loyal to the GOP. The Pink Flamingo remains GOP in order to try to bring the party back to what it once was. I fear it is an impossible task.
The Pink Flamingo went on line on October 4, 2005, after the author realized “normal” Republicans were being marginalized as the extreme far right attempts to become the new normal. In November, 2012, The Pink Flamingo, for the first time ever, voted for a Democrat, Barack Obama. Normal will never again apply to the GOP.
THE PINK FLAMINGO STORY
It started out as a joke. During the seven years I worked with the girls of my parish, leading a youth group, one of the things that I stressed were manners. Part of having manners, the way I see it, is to know how to set a proper table, host a party, cater it, and clean up afterward. I was fortunate enough to have a group of very talented girls in my youth group. They learned how to plan for, and execute large church functions, very properly. During one such function I noticed there were several incredibly tacky pink flamingos sitting on the table. Knowing the girls were up to something, I said nothing. A few months later they did the same thing at a function I was hosting at my home. I said nothing. They had a birthday party for me. More pink flamingos appeared – and a joke was born.
Thanks to the girls, all of whom are now grown, I have a collection of pink flamingos. It has become an ongoing joke. When I began working on my political blog, I realized the only possibly title was The Pink Flamingo!